Today is my 31st birthday. Overalll, I am amazed at where my life is, the experiences I have had. I wanted to make some sort of list of 31 things. I have decided on
31 events that have taught me how to fly. Some have helped me to soar, others I've stumbled to the ground. It's all there and that's what life is all about. (
These are in no particular order of importance.)1. April 11th, 1995- I met my husband at
Ground Zero club in Minneapolis. He was throwing a rave there that night. The rest is history:)
2.
White Sands National Park in New Mexico. Joe and I took a trip there for my golden birthday. I found it stunningly beautiful and intriguing. This trip was pre-kids. So I always remember it as a time when it was just Joe and I, footloose and fancy free!
3. Joe and I took a trip to
Alaska summer of 2001. Saying I *loved* it is an understatement. I was ready to move there! The scenery was breathtaking and the time warp feeling of being so remote and wild made me more fully alive.
4. Going to a workshop with Mike Port and
Natalie Goldberg at the University of St. Thomas (where I was in school) on Buddhism. Joe and I then started going to
Clouds in Water Zen Center in St. Paul where Mike was the lead teacher. I have found Buddhism to be a perfect match for my beliefs and gives me a grounding when dealing with the
messy things in life. I feel so fortunate that Joe and I are on the same spiritual path together.
5. I was a competitive swimmer as a child. When I was about 10 years old, I was doing the 100 butterfly and simply gave up in the middle of the race- stopped in the middle of the pool and sobbed. That event was extraordinarily humbling and truly taught me to
never give up and I haven't ever since!
6. My labor and delivery of my son, Lowell, taught me how to endure unimagniable pain and was very eye opening about what my body can handle. Chloe being born was such a different birth experience and the "ease" of her birth helped me realize what a beautiful thing birth can be.
7. Being a parent has taught me how to soar and to stumble with grace. Each day has its celebrations and struggles and to just remember that it's all going to be ok!
8. Getting involved in the world of altered books when Lowell was just a few months old. The very first thing I made was altered
fabric baby book for him.
9. Lowell getting a diagnosis of Autism one year ago turned our world upside down.
10. Going to Italy, alone, when I was 19 years old for a photography
workshop in Tuscany with Harvey Stein.
11. Starting this ArtsyMama blog and discovering the amazing online blogging community (
Michelle was my mentor-
thank you!).
12. Finding the book
A Reason to Live by Melody Beattie when I was 16 years old and nothing else seemed to give me hope.
13. Halloween parties at my neighbors house every year as a kid. It ignited my inner passion for all things Halloween!
14. Working at
HANC, as a naturalist, and the amazing women that I met there and the friendships that we still all have.
15. All the traveling I did as a child. We took many, many family trips that helped educate, shape and broaden my perspective on the world.
16. Having Lowell start his Autism Day Treatment program at
St. David's has given me hope.
17. November 21st, 1998- our wedding day. Being a wife has taught me love beyond love.
18. Growing up doing gymnastics all summer in our living room with my sister, Laura. We became such close friends and I've always treasured our relationship.
19. The car
accident I was in this past summer really made me realize that your life can change in an instant.
20. Listening to
Rebecca Walker speak made me feel so powerful and so happy to be female.
21. Going to
library school, finding a path that fits me so well and the wondeful friends that I made.
22. The relationship I have with my parents. They are such an amazing help with my kids and *wonderful* support for me. I value the realationship we've developed as adults.
23. Starting work again
very part time, as a librarian. It's great to have something just for me:)
24.
Rhonna's first 21 day challenge. I worked on
mindfulness and gained so much confidence in my artwork. It truly was from the heart.
25. Buying a house. It's been so wonderful to be homeowners. Feeling a sense of place.
26. Going to
Green Lake, Wisconsin with my family, my grandparents and cousins each year growing up. My grandmother was an amazing artist and she really helped foster my artistic mind. We did many fun craft projects.
27. Going to
raves with Joe when we first met. It was so much fun to loosen up and
feel the music thumping through my body.
28. My creative writing class in college. This is where I found out about the workshop to Italy that I attended. I also got a chance to write through my depression story. That was very theraputic for me.
29. Being a competitive swimmer for 9 years has really shaped the person I am today. I learned so much about discipline, hard work and strength.
30. All the
art events I have coming up in the next year that I know I'll be so inspired and rejuvenated by!
31. Nurturing my creative side. Have the support of my husband, my family and friends to pursue my dreams and live my life to the fullest.
THANK YOU!
I felt like I was getting behind on the many fun challenges I had been taking part in. Then, earlier this week, I was listening to National Public Radio and there was an essay called "This, I believe" that was read on the air. The phrase intrigued me. I went to the web site and did a search. I found THIS! What an amazing project. It began in 1951, Edward R. Murrow encouraged people to write an essay about the beliefs that guided their lives. This project is continuing on today and you can read or listen to the essays here. I found them extraordinarily inspiring and it got me thinking about the beliefs that guide my life today. This was a very fun exercise to do. I feel like where I am in my life right now, as a mother of two young children, I'm constantly re-evaluating my values and what's important to me. Since time is such a precious thing, I want to make sure that I spend it doing what matters most. I would encourage you to check out these web sites and think about your personal philosophies and values that guide your own daily life. I also realized that I printed on patterened paper, which was part of Annie's challenge and also played with lettering, as part of Rhonna's. I guess a girl can do it all! Hehe:)
